mothers Why a mother is so valuable in Ramadhaan
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> Ramadhaan is the most important month of the Islamic year. It is in this
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> with greater enthusiasm. The Muslim family spend precious moments of
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> time together during Iftaar and Suhoor. These two meals provide the fuel
> and blessing that grant a Muslim the physical and spiritual strength to
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> The food Muslims consume plays a critical role in their worship. Allah
> mentions in the Quran : "Eat what is wholesome and do good deeds." In
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> words, wholesome and halaal food promotes good character and actions.
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> responsibility of ensuring that wholesome meals are provided for the
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> sustenance. The mother ensures that the food that is consumed is
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> A few ideas on how a mother can create an Islamic home in Ramadhaan :
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> Encourage children to recite Quran regularly every day even if it be a
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> Encourage them to fast even for an hour or half a day. This will build
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> Let them perform Salaah together with the mother while she prays.
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> Teach them one new thing about Ramadhaan every day, eg. a dua, hadith,
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> Teach them to avoid junk food. Ramadhaan is, after all, a month of diet
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> Assign one of the kids the responsibility for waking everyone up for
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> In Ramadhaan, specifically, there must be a constant reminder of an
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> home! Children learn from a mother's personal example. A mother who is
> always there by supervising and disciplining her children and who keeps
> busy with Salah, Qur'aan and Dua provides the most favourable Islamic
> atmosphere for piety and happiness in the home. A mother provides a
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> warmth and tenderness to the family during Ramadhaan. Ramadhaan without
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> mother can never be a true Ramadhaan. Ask anybody who has lost a mother
> within the last year how sad and empty that home now is.
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> A dua for our mothers and sisters
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> May Allah grant our mothers the understanding of their critical role in
> every Muslim home. They are the spiritual pillars upon which the bricks
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> worship and obedience stand. If they fall or crumble the future of the
> Ummah is at stake. May Allah make our Muslim women true beacons of
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> and strength. Ameen!
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