Behaviour in the Kabrestaan
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh > > > > > > Behaviour in the Kabrestaan > > > > > > Guidelines to follow when in the kabrestaan .. > > > > People are in the increasing habit of chatting to & meeting long lost > > people > > in the > > > > kabrestaan when accompanying a mayyet. > > > > Have we forgotten the reason why we are there? > > > > > > It's a shame that the marhoom has to bear witness to such negligence & > > disrespect. > > > > Have we as a society lost compassion for the deceased? > > > > Our Nabi Sallallahualaihiwasallam gave us guidelines on behaviour in the > > Kabrestaan, some of them are(& with reasonable additions from the > > Ullema) : > > > > - To refrain from worldly talk > > - One should remember death > > - Put yourself in the marhoom's situation (how would you feel if at your > > mayyet, > > > > if every1 spoke of their businesses, families & get2gethers, the while > > your silent cry goes unheard!!) > > - Think of whether you are ready to meet your maker > > - Recite quraan or Durood & send the sawaab onto the Marhoom's account > > - Pray for the deceased > > > > Quraanic recitations (some basic recitations that hold much reward) - > > > > The 3 Qul's i.e. Surah Ikhlaas X3, Surah Falaq, Surah Naas > > > > (It is said that 3 recitations of Surah Ikhlaas amount to the reward of > > reciting the entire quraan) > > > > Surah Fatiha > > > > (The recitation of Surah Fatiha has numerous blessing, one of which is > > cure > > to sickness, the weakest of which is sorrow) > > > > Surah Yaaseen > > > > (It is said that Surah Yaaseen is known as the HEART of the quraan, with > > monumental sawaab) > > > > These are among the most blessed verses of the Noble Quraan. > > > > How appreciative will you be if at your mayyet, some1 recites these & > > passes > > the sawaab onto you. > > > > Something to think about! > > > > Please forward to all you know, inshaAllah the ummat will prosper > > through > > distribution of knowledge, & sisters, please send to male-folk you know. > > > > Please remember the sender, our Marhoom & our fortunate brothers & > > sisters > > who are still with us, the young & old, sick & healthy, those who are > > facing > > oppression all over the world & at our doorstep in your blessed dua's > > > > Remember there is always hope, Allah ta Ala's mercy & forgiveness is > > greater > > than our minds can fathom. > > > > > > Jazakallah
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh > > > > > > Behaviour in the Kabrestaan > > > > > > Guidelines to follow when in the kabrestaan .. > > > > People are in the increasing habit of chatting to & meeting long lost > > people > > in the > > > > kabrestaan when accompanying a mayyet. > > > > Have we forgotten the reason why we are there? > > > > > > It's a shame that the marhoom has to bear witness to such negligence & > > disrespect. > > > > Have we as a society lost compassion for the deceased? > > > > Our Nabi Sallallahualaihiwasallam gave us guidelines on behaviour in the > > Kabrestaan, some of them are(& with reasonable additions from the > > Ullema) : > > > > - To refrain from worldly talk > > - One should remember death > > - Put yourself in the marhoom's situation (how would you feel if at your > > mayyet, > > > > if every1 spoke of their businesses, families & get2gethers, the while > > your silent cry goes unheard!!) > > - Think of whether you are ready to meet your maker > > - Recite quraan or Durood & send the sawaab onto the Marhoom's account > > - Pray for the deceased > > > > Quraanic recitations (some basic recitations that hold much reward) - > > > > The 3 Qul's i.e. Surah Ikhlaas X3, Surah Falaq, Surah Naas > > > > (It is said that 3 recitations of Surah Ikhlaas amount to the reward of > > reciting the entire quraan) > > > > Surah Fatiha > > > > (The recitation of Surah Fatiha has numerous blessing, one of which is > > cure > > to sickness, the weakest of which is sorrow) > > > > Surah Yaaseen > > > > (It is said that Surah Yaaseen is known as the HEART of the quraan, with > > monumental sawaab) > > > > These are among the most blessed verses of the Noble Quraan. > > > > How appreciative will you be if at your mayyet, some1 recites these & > > passes > > the sawaab onto you. > > > > Something to think about! > > > > Please forward to all you know, inshaAllah the ummat will prosper > > through > > distribution of knowledge, & sisters, please send to male-folk you know. > > > > Please remember the sender, our Marhoom & our fortunate brothers & > > sisters > > who are still with us, the young & old, sick & healthy, those who are > > facing > > oppression all over the world & at our doorstep in your blessed dua's > > > > Remember there is always hope, Allah ta Ala's mercy & forgiveness is > > greater > > than our minds can fathom. > > > > > > Jazakallah